“The funny thing about coming out is that it relies on the belief that the information you're keeping about yourself is shameful. If you were raised to be somewhat shameless, it's less of a one-time shock and more like a lifelong rumble.” ShameComing OutShamefulShamelessShamelessness Book:Coming Out Like a Porn Star: Essays on Pornography, Protection, and Privacy Source: Coming Out Like a Porn Star: Essays on Pornography, Protection, and Privacy