“Two preliminary possibilities exist for resolving a conflict. You can tally up the pro's and con's on each side and reach a logically satisfying decision, or you can opt to do what you "really want," and then proceed to do what is necessary to make it possible.” DecisionConflictTransformation Book:The Secret Raven: Conflict and Transformation in the Life of Franz Kafka Source: The Secret Raven: Conflict and Transformation in the Life of Franz Kafka