“Once you have a handle on loving yourself, you can practice sharing that love with others. You’ve probably been taught to reserve the language of love for when you’re feeling overwhelmingly tender and passionate, and only for those who have made huge commitments to you. We recommend instead learning to recognize and acknowledge all the sweet feelings that make life worthwhile even when they don’t knock you over—and, moreover, learning to communicate those feelings to the people who inspire them.” PeopleMadeFeelingsLanguagePracticeInspireTaughtSweetHugeCommitmentPassionateCommunicateHandleAcknowledgeWorthwhileReservesLoving YouLoving YourselfLanguage Of Love Author:Dossie Easton
“It is cruel and insensitive to interpret an affair as a symptom of sickness in the relationship, as it leaves the 'cheated-on' partner - who may already be feeling insecure - to wonder what is wrong with him Many people have sex outside their primary relationships for reasons that have nothing to do with any inadequacy in their partner or in the relationship.” PeopleMayReasonFeelingsSexWonderAffairPartnersPrimariesSicknessInsecureSymptomsCheatedInadequacyInsensitiveCheated OnFeeling Insecure Book:The ethical slut: a guide to infinite sexual possibilities Source: The ethical slut: a guide to infinite sexual possibilities
“We believe that every relationship is unique unto itself, and thus even an attempt to think in types and forms is not going to express the essential truths of what happens when we love people.” PeopleThinkingBelieveHappensFormTypeEssentialsUnique Author:Dossie Easton
