“Often, her mate is the child of a narcissist, already indoctrinated to regard exploitation and disregard as love. Others lured by the narcissistic aura are those in whom healthy childhood exhibitionism has been repressed. . . . If the parent puts the child to shame for showing off, the need for attention gets repressed into the unconscious. Repression means that the need is not satisfied and continues to press for expression in the adult without her being aware of it. The repressed adult may select an exhibitionistic mate to achieve vicarious satisfaction.” ShameNarcissismExploitationRepressionNarcissisticDysfunctional FamiliesExhibitionismNarcissistic MothersNarcissistic PersonalityRepressed EmotionsNarcissistic AbusersRevictimization Book:Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self Source: Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self