“When I decided I was a boy, I realized that if I wanted to pass, I'd have to learn to walk differently, talk differently, dress differently, basically act differently than I did as a girl. But why did we need to act at all?” SexIdentityGenderPassingLgbtComing OutTransgenderStereotypesGender Roles Book:Parrotfish Source: Parrotfish
“But I knew the first question Mom asked Gail was, Is it a boy or a girl? Because, for some reason, that is the first thing everybody wants to know the minute you're born. Should we label it with pink or blue? Wouldn't want anyone to mistake the gender of an infant! What is that so important?” SexIdentityGenderLgbtTransgender Book:Parrotfish Source: Parrotfish
“I guess I'd just been thinking about it for so long that I forgot changing your gender was not even a question for most people. They just took for granted being a boy or a girl. I couldn't imagine what it would be like to be so sure of yourself.” SexIdentityGenderLgbtComing OutTransgender Book:Parrotfish Source: Parrotfish
“I was surprised at how much general fear and anxiety lurked inside me these days. I'd never been a fearful person, never even understood phobias like fear of heights of water or snakes or any of those things. And while I knew that my coming out as a transgender person was going to throw certain people for a loop, I somehow hadn't realized how much it would throw me.” SexFearIdentityAnxietyGenderLgbtComing OutTransgender Book:Parrotfish Source: Parrotfish
