“I am suggesting is that the past, as we remember it, has little to do with causal or determining factos that have in some way made, or influenced, us as we are today. Rather, the remembered past provides us with the means to maintain, or validate, who we are today and to give focus and direction to who we might wish to become at some future point in time.” 56 Book:Tales of Un-Knowing: Therapeutic Encounters from an Existential Perspective Source: Tales of Un-Knowing: Therapeutic Encounters from an Existential Perspective
“I am suggesting is that the past, as we remember it, has little to do with causal or determining factors that have in some way made, or influenced, us as we are today. Rather, the remembered past provides us with the means to maintain, or validate, who we are today and to give focus and direction to who we might wish to become at some future point in time.” 56 Book:Tales of Un-Knowing: Therapeutic Encounters from an Existential Perspective Source: Tales of Un-Knowing: Therapeutic Encounters from an Existential Perspective
“This dual position suggests a basic tension or 'existential dilemma' in human living that each of us seeks to resolve: the search for, and attempt to construct, a way of being that somehow will balance our unique reflections upon our lived experience with the perceived demands and desires of being-with-others. In this sense, the fundamental project of living, for all of us, becomes the struggle to achieve relational balance between or experience of our own self-construct, our experience of others as we have construed them to be, and our experience of that 'between-ness' that emerges through our every encounter with the world.” 9796 Author:Ernesto Spinelli