“Dressing femme to the nines and then hanging on the arm of another woman all night—a fuck-you to straight men—can feel electrifying. And butch confidence, the grit to invert every traditional way a woman is supposed to look is wholly contagious.” LgbtFemmeLesbianismButch Book:The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture Source: The 2000s Made Me Gay: Essays on Pop Culture