“When people who don't know you well admire you, they are seeing their projected illusion, not your real self. In contrast, when people who know you well respect you, it is probably because you deserve it.” RespectSelf ConfidenceAdmiration Book:The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down: How to Be Calm in a Busy World Source: The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down: How to Be Calm in a Busy World