“I wonder if we have to suspend our sharpness to love someone, to give ourselves that fuzzy gentleness that is so necessary. I mean, I don’t think we have to use the smart part of ourselves to love. Does that mean we suspend our judgment when we love someone? I think so, and I think that is why it is so hard for the watchful to love.” “That’s lust you’re describing,” he said” Strings AttachedGay WalleyVenus As She AgesJacqueline Gay Walley Author:Jacqueline Gay Walley