“our sons and daughters are only passing through. ... If we are lucky, they always will consider our home their harbor, but they are headed out to the open sea, almost from the first.” IfsFirstsChildrenHomeSeaSonLuckyDaughterPassingPassingsHarborsPassing ThroughSon And Daughter Book:The Rest of Us: Dispatches from the Mother Ship Source: The Rest of Us: Dispatches from the Mother Ship