“Only when firmly grounded in a strong real self can we live and share our lives with others in ways that are healthy, straightforward expressions of our deepest needs and desires, and in so doing find fulfillment and meaning.” NeedsFulfillmentDesiresFinding MeaningThe Real Self Book:The Search For The Real Self: Unmasking The Personality Disorders Of Our Age Source: The Search For The Real Self: Unmasking The Personality Disorders Of Our Age