“Is your friendship moving toward affection, or is it settled in obligation? Does your friendship honor the individual or debase him as a charity case? Is your desire for this person’s good zealous, or is it half-hearted?” LoveDesireIndividualFriendshipAffectionGoalsHonour Book:Love the Ones Who Drive You Crazy: Eight Truths for Pursuing Unity in Your Church Source: Love the Ones Who Drive You Crazy: Eight Truths for Pursuing Unity in Your Church