“I don’t know what I would have done if they had hugged me. I probably would have frozen in place, become stiff. It took most of my life to overcome my distaste for physical contact and not to stiffen when I was touched, or flinch, twitch, fidget, and eventually figure out how to move away. I learned to accept being hugged by my children when they were infants. Their joy at seeing me enter a room was real and filled with true love and affection and it showed in their embraces. Like a convert, when I learned the joy and comfort of being hugged by and hugging those I loved, I became a regular practitioner.” KindnessFoster Child Book:No Time to Say Goodbye: A Memoir of a Life in Foster Care Source: No Time to Say Goodbye: A Memoir of a Life in Foster Care
“Most people don’t understand how mighty the power of touch is, how mighty a kind word can be, how important a listening ear is, or how giving an honest compliment can move the child who has not known those things, only watched them from afar. As insignificant as they can be, they have the power to change a life.” LifeComplimentPower Of KindnessFoster Child Author:John William Tuohy
“I hit him for every single thing that was wrong in my life and kicked him in a fierce fury of madness as he sobbed and covered his face and screamed. I hit him because Walter hit me and I hit him because I hated my life and I hit him because I just wanted to go home and I hit him because I didn’t know where home was.” FightingAngerFoster Child Book:No Time to Say Goodbye: A Memoir of a Life in Foster Care Source: No Time to Say Goodbye: A Memoir of a Life in Foster Care