“You can mourn your own changes, too. That you are no longer the person you used to be is, in my opinion, a good reason for mourning. It can be a cause for celebration, sometimes, too. But you can always give who you once were a send-off, a memorial, before you move on from them.” MourningChanges Book:Goodbye, Again: Essays, Reflections, and Illustrations Source: Goodbye, Again: Essays, Reflections, and Illustrations