“People accord you exactly the amount of respect you accord yourself.” Self Respect Book:Watching the Detectives Source: Watching the Detectives
“(About a woman's funeral) Do you remember the part in The Wizard of Oz when the witch is dead and the Munchkins start singing? Think that kind of happiness. I swear every woman there was ready to break into song. Maybe a few of the men, too. (p. 80)” FuneralRevenge Is SweetSchadenfreudeHarridan Book:The Deep End Source: The Deep End
“None of this was part of the plan all the girls I'd grown up with had been given. Not a written plan, unless the book about Cinderella counted. The plan was in the water we drank, the air we breathed. It was poured into the pavement on the streets we called home. Marry a nice man, one who was a good provider, and live happily, or at least comfortably, ever after. Safe to say I'd followed the plan. I'd married a banker. Had a baby. But the plan had failed me. It left me alone huddled in a window seat with every emotion I'd refused to let myself feel seeping through my pores until the air in my bedroom was heavy with sadness and angst and confusion. (p. 235)” FeminismFeministFairy TaleHousewifeCinderellaTraditional MarriageFairy Tale Marriage Book:The Deep End Source: The Deep End