“I want you to be better than me. Xue looked at our father. Xue said, What if you are the best man I know how to be?” Growing UpFamily Conflict Book:The Song Poet: A Memoir of My Father Source: The Song Poet: A Memoir of My Father
“Patience is the slow road to success” SuccessPatience Book:The Latehomecomer: A Hmong Family Memoir Source: The Latehomecomer: A Hmong Family Memoir
“On November 26, 2003, nine months after my mother died, you gave birth to Max, a little boy with an American name, a little boy I didn’t think we could handle and had said maybe we should consider not having, a little boy who looked up at me with almond eyes, who smiled my smile. Max was a surprise. Nearly nine years after our youngest daughter had been born, long after we said we were done having children, long after I had tried my hand at being a father to a son and was beginning to feel I had failed, out of the blue, cloudless sky a little boy traveled into our life on the wings of my mother’s death. In 2003, I realized I had never written you a love song.” LovePoetryFamilyMemoirHmong Book:The Song Poet: A Memoir of My Father Source: The Song Poet: A Memoir of My Father
“Love is the reason why my mother and father stick together in a hard life when they might each have an easier one apart; love is the reason why you choose a life with someone, and you don't turn back although your heart cries sometimes and your children see you cry and you wish out loud that things were easier. Love is getting up each day and fighting the same fight only to sleep that night in the same bed beside the same person because long ago, when you were younger and you did not see so clearly, you had chosen them.” HeartChildrenPersonsLongSometimesHardReasonMightTogetherMotherNightTurnsFightingFatherWishSleepLove IsCryEasierBedOur ChildrenSticksChosenLoudReason WhyYour ChildrenEach DayYou ChooseLong AgoMother And FatherHard Life Author:Kao Kalia Yang