“Instead of communicating "I love you, so let me make life easy for you," I decided that my message needed to be something more along these lines: "I love you. I believe in you. I know what you're capable of. So I'm going to make you work.” KidsWorkParentingCleaningEntitlement Book:Cleaning House: A Mom's Twelve-Month Experiment to Rid Her Home of Youth Entitlement Source: Cleaning House: A Mom's Twelve-Month Experiment to Rid Her Home of Youth Entitlement