“Alternative lifestyle communities can easily become victim to cults of personality. Calling out problems in a community or running afoul of the wrong popular organizer, even for the right reasons, can lead to a social backlash.” PolyamoryCommunity DynamicsAlternative Lifestyles Book:Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities Source: Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities