“If you spend your energy condemning and judging the people who mistreat you it puts you in a condemning and judging mindset, which subconsciously makes you feel condemned and judged too. The more judgmental you are, the worse your self-esteem will be.” Self EsteemJudgmentalCondemning Book:Choosing Clarity: The Path to Fearlessness Source: Choosing Clarity: The Path to Fearlessness