“It’s a common assumption that all power exchange-based relationships ‘should’ or ‘must’ involve punishment and/or discipline. The truth is a bit more grey. Whether a Disciplinarian, Service Top, or Dominant (or all three!), the makeup of your relationship is 100% up to you and your partner.” RelationshipsDisciplineDominanceBdsmDynamicsKink Book:The Kynk 101 Handbook Source: The Kynk 101 Handbook
“But how do you differentiate between going to bed in the evening and having sex, and having ‘kinky’ sex? It’s a perfectly valid question... kink is anything that deviates from the ‘normal’ and is especially personal. What makes you kinky is what makes you kinky.” BdsmKinkKinky Sex Book:The Kynk 101 Handbook Source: The Kynk 101 Handbook
“Determining a ‘good’ or ‘bad’ kink is impossible without making some kind of personal judgement. There is technically no such thing as a universally ‘bad’ kink - only what someone personally believes is bad. As consenting adults, whether or not a kink is ‘bad’ is at the discretion of those involved.” PhilosophyMoralityEthicsKinkKinky Books Book:The Kynk 101 Handbook Source: The Kynk 101 Handbook