“Too many individuals have been wrongly instructed that biblical love means they must be "nice," and suffer quietly--even if they are mistreated and abused. But as C.S. Lewis wisely wrote, 'Love is more stern and splendid than mere kindness.” LoveAbuseBoundariesReal LoveBiblicalEmotional AbuseAbuse SurvivorsC S Lewis Quotes Book:The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It Source: The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It
“Contrary to what destructive people will say, the most loving thing we can do for them is hold them accountable for their actions. This indeed may cost us sacrifice and suffering. We do this not only for our benefit but with the hope that as we draw a line in the sand and say "no more" they will wake up to their own sinfulness and repent.” LoveBoundariesAccountabilityNarcissismEmotional IntelligenceNarcissistsDysfunctional Relationships Book:The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It Source: The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It