“In books, movies, and just about everywhere else, girls get the message that the more selflessly and painfully a woman suffers, the more we love her, but no where is this message quite so clear as it is in religion.” Suffering Book:Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free Source: Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free