“Recently, I’ve begun to think of scoliosis as a metaphor for my life. I’ve struggled to please teachers, employers, parents, boyfriends, husbands, twisting myself into someone I can’t be. I hurt when I do this, because it’s not natural. And it never works. But when I stretch my Self, instead, the results are different. When I’m reaching for my personal goals—to be a good mother, wife, friend and writer—I feel my balance return. And the sense of relief, as I become more the woman I truly am, is simply grand.” Self Esteem Or Lack Thereof Book:Off Kilter: A Woman's Journey to Peace with Scoliosis, Her Mother, and Her Polish Heritage Source: Off Kilter: A Woman's Journey to Peace with Scoliosis, Her Mother, and Her Polish Heritage