“If we could just know when we were adults the kind of love that had welcomed us into the world, I don't think we would be lonely ever again.” LoveBirthLonelyParenting Book:The Price of Admission: Embracing a Life of Grief and Joy Source: The Price of Admission: Embracing a Life of Grief and Joy
“These are the things they don't tell you about motherhood. How after a lifetime of struggling to love yourself it will be an absolute miracle to love these babies so wholly and unconditionally, sure. But also how they will love themselves the same way, at least at first, and in that maybe you will find a level of healing that all the therapy and self-help in the world couldn't get you to because you will realize at some point you must have loved yourself the very same way. Or how seeing the way they are so comfortable in their own skin, the way they strut around so confident in the fact that they are the masterpiece we too believe them to be, will make all the wok we've done trying to suck it all in or hide it or simply avoid looking at it in the mirror seem kind of silly. Because of course it is. It's against everything we were born knowing.” ChildrenSelf LoveParentingBodies Book:The Price of Admission: Embracing a Life of Grief and Joy Source: The Price of Admission: Embracing a Life of Grief and Joy