“I did not attend any Academy so it is not my job to police you or try to catch you in any act. If I get to the point where I feel the need to do that, I'd rather just walk away cuz it means you've lost my trust and without that, we have nothing left. Our foundation is cracked and I'm not living in a shaky house.” RelationshipsTrust Book:I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual Source: I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual
“Like Likes: 3 Why try to change who you were born to be and force yourself into who you think everyone will find more beautiful? Society has failed people to the point where they feel they cannot like themselves in the skin they were born in.” Love YourselfApperance Book:I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual Source: I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual
“Some well-meaning folks think if we stop talking about racism, it’ll magically disappear, like the smell of an errant fart. But like a fart, people might try to be polite and ignore it, but everyone knows it’s there. Avoidance has never been a great tactic in solving any problem. For most situations in life, not addressing what's going wrong only makes matters worse. It’s like someone breaks your arm, and the person who slammed the baseball bat into it is saying, 'The only reason it won’t heal is because you keep complaining that it hurts.' How about you get me a cast so the bone can set straight again? America does not want to put the effort into providing this cast. This is why we must talk about race, and we must do it openly.” RaceConversationRacismFartColorblindness Book:I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual Source: I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual
“Sometimes, I wonder which is better: a blatant bigot or an oblivious racist.” BigotsLiberalsRacistsWell Meaning And FailingRacisim Book:I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual Source: I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual