“Once, at a seminar, I heard a Westernized lama say that a meditator's state of mind should be like that of a hotel doorman. A doorman lets the guests in, but he doesn't follow them up to their rooms. He lets them out, but he doesn't walk into the street with them to their next appointment. He greets them all, then lets them go on about their business. Meditation is, in its initial stages, simply accustoming oneself to letting thoughts come and go without grasping at their sleeves or putting up a velvet rope to keep them out.” ShouldMindStatesNextWalksRoomsMeditationHeardStreetsStageGoes OnLetting GoOneselfHotelState Of MindGuestsRopeInitialsComes And GoesSleevesAppointmentsGraspingVelvetLamaSeminars Book:The Compassionate Life: Walking the Path of Kindness Source: The Compassionate Life: Walking the Path of Kindness
“I used to think that people who regarded everyone benignly were a mite simple or oblivious or just plain lax-until I tried it myself. Then I realized that they made it only look easy. Even the Berditchever Rebbe, revered as a man who could strike a rock and bring forth a stream, was continually honing his intentions. "Until I remove the thread of hatred from my heart," he said of his daily meditations, "I am, in my own eyes, as if I did not exist."” PeopleIfsThinkingMenLooksHeartMadeSaidEyeUsedEasyMy OwnSimpleMeditationRocksMy HeartHatredIntentionStrikesI RealizedMade ItStreamsRemoveThreadObliviousLaxHoningDaily Meditation Book:The Compassionate Life: Walking the Path of Kindness Source: The Compassionate Life: Walking the Path of Kindness