“Women are described as the “emotional” gender, but I’ve found that women, Black women in particular, are very skilled at bearing feelings and suffering in silence. Black women have been doing it since we arrived on the shores in 1619. We swallow the pain of racism. We swallow the micro aggressions we experience at the office. We swallow the indignity that we feel when white women touch our hair. We swallow the fear and anxiety that comes with being wives, daughter,s and mothers to Black men and boys.” GriefDignityRacism In America Book:Grief Is Love: Living with Loss Source: Grief Is Love: Living with Loss
“Black women are taught to move through this country not only bearing the regular indignities and slights that come with preconceived notion of Black women, but also the scars of our history.” GriefRacism In America Book:Grief Is Love: Living with Loss Source: Grief Is Love: Living with Loss