“Accept that what you see is what you'll get. Once your relationship becomes firmly established, your partner's personality and the way in which [he or] she treats you will most likely be what your future together will look like. Staying with a partner whom you hope will change usually results in disappointment.” HopeRelationshipsChange2009 Book:The White Knight Syndrome: Rescuing Yourself from Your Need to Rescue Others Source: The White Knight Syndrome: Rescuing Yourself from Your Need to Rescue Others