“Loneliness can feel like what's private has been made public, as if your belly button has come undone and your liver, lungs, and beating heart have spilled onto the sidewalk.” Loneliness Book:The Groom Will Keep His Name: And Other Vows I've Made About Race, Resistance, and Romance Source: The Groom Will Keep His Name: And Other Vows I've Made About Race, Resistance, and Romance