“Examining our behaviors and thought patterns demands sustained, uninterrupted self-work, and the fullness of our everyday lives and the finite attention spans that rove through them sometimes appear engineered to thwart personal investigations. For many, such an undertaking is undesirable in any case: Those of us content with our lives are not compelled to confront or interrogate our habits, lifestyles, or underlying beliefs. Contentment doesn't incentivize change--it does everything in its power to forestall it. But those of us learning to survive in the ill-disposed, unaccommodating terrain of afterlives--marooned on the desert islands we have little affinity for--must open ourselves up to it.” ChangeReflectionPersonal GrowthSelf AnalysisReflectiveness Book:What Doesn't Kill Us Makes Us: Who We Become After Tragedy and Trauma Source: What Doesn't Kill Us Makes Us: Who We Become After Tragedy and Trauma