“[We] eventually joked about the pedestal he put me on during our first years together, and I know my falling off it drew us closer. Pedestals separate. They create imbalances. ... But the pedestal Scott has placed me on feels so good under my feet. I like the smooth, study foundation of it, the intoxicating knowledge that I am someone's ideal, someone's vision of perfection.” RelationshipsPolyamoryOpen Marriage Book:More: A Memoir of Open Marriage Source: More: A Memoir of Open Marriage