“When I'm by myself, I'm not threatening at all. I get many more invitations than I would if I were traveling with anyone else, especially with a man. But I'm rarely alone. I sit on a park bench and I'm not alone because I pick a park bench where somebody interesting is sitting.” IfsMenInterestingPicksSittingParksThreateningInvitationsNot AloneBenchesPark Benches Author:Rita Gelman
“Take what happened to me in Bali. I planned on going to Ubud, then met a man on an airplane who told me it was too touristy. He gave me an address on the other side of the island, which turned out to be a palace where I lived for four years.” MenYearsSidesFourHappenedMetsIslandsAddressesFour YearsAirplanePalacesBali Author:Rita Gelman