“In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless, and uninteresting.” LoveRelationshipsPsychology Book:No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life Source: No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life