“Mind Your Language in the Presence of Patriachs Q. When is rape not rape? A. When it is your father or stepfather.” RapeChild Sexual AbuseIncestChild RapeMinimizationRape Myths Book:Court Licensed Abuse: Patriarchal Lore and the Legal Response to Intrafamilial Sexual Abuse of Children Source: Court Licensed Abuse: Patriarchal Lore and the Legal Response to Intrafamilial Sexual Abuse of Children