“What many people grieve after divorce is not only the relationship, but the self that existed within it.” RelationshipsGriefHealingIdentityDivorce Book:When We Becomes Me: A Psychotherapist’s Guide to the Beginning, the Messy Middle, and the Other Side of Divorce Source: When We Becomes Me: A Psychotherapist’s Guide to the Beginning, the Messy Middle, and the Other Side of Divorce