“The city had seemed like a great place to discover who you are. It just seemed that there was a lot to experience here, as if all you had to do was show up and the city would take care of the rest, making sure you got the education, the maturing, the wising-up you needed. Its crowds, the noise, the endlessness of it all, the perpetual motion, felt exciting then—revealing—just the deep end I needed to jump into. There is something unique about New York, some quality, some matchless, pertinent combination of promise and despair, wizardry and counterfeit, abundance and depletion, that stimulates and allows for a reckoning to occur—maybe even forces it. The city pulls back the curtain on who you are; it tests you and shows you what you are made of in a way that has become iconic in our popular culture, and with good reason.” Self DiscoveryNew York CityCity Life Book:Goodbye to All That: Writers on Loving and Leaving New York Source: Goodbye to All That: Writers on Loving and Leaving New York
“They pine for the hip, frosty girlfriend they abandoned for a pleasant if unexciting marriage to her sunnier, less mentally present sister coast.” ColdWarmLos AngelesNew York CitySunnyBrooklynCoolHipFrosty Book:Never Can Say Goodbye: Writers on Their Unshakable Love for New York Source: Never Can Say Goodbye: Writers on Their Unshakable Love for New York