“I had only been exposed to the straight-and-narrow way: go to school, get a degree, graduate, get a job, make money, buy a house, and then die.” Life LessonsLife And Living Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“In trying to undo what my parents had done, I had become just like them - vindictive, hurtful and cruel.” Life LessonsLife And LivingParents And Children Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Our stories are one and the same, our destinies forever intertwined and defined by our sweat, our sacrifice and our unyielding dedication to defying the odds and achieving the impossible.” Reality Of Life Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Look, I'm not here to lecture you about Eurocentricity or media bias; I just want to put forth the idea that maybe China has been the punching bag of the West for a very, very long time, and that nothing is gained from the continued demonization of its people... of my people. If you can accept that a single country can give birth to both a Donald Trump and a Donald Glover, a Steve Carell and a Stone Cold Steve Austin, you shouldn't have any difficulty accepting that the 1.3 billion people who call China home are just as varied in their ideologies and philosophies. There are the party officials, the pure-of-heart idealists, the Crazy Rich Asians, the activists, the social media influencers (smash that subscribe button!), the internet trolls and every conceivable thing in between–but perhaps most of all, there are the families like my parents, who simply did their best to stay out of trouble and survive from one day to the next.” Media BiasEurocentrism Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“My whole family...spoke of this "Canada" as if it were some sort of idyllic paradise, a place of abundant snacks and endless affection....Looking back, it felt kind of cult-y, like gospel from the Church of Canadology that I was supposed to just accept.” LoveHateRelationshipsFateFameRacismParents And Children Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“...maybe China has been the punching bag of the West for a very, very long time, and that nothing is gained from the continued demonization of its people...of my people. If you can accept that a single country can give birth to both a Donald Trump and a Donald Glover, a Steve Carell and a Stone Cold Steve Austin, you shouldn't have any difficulty accepting that the 1.3 billion people who call China home are just as varied in their ideologies and philosophies.” HateRelationshipsFateLoversFameRacismParents And Children Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“The university actually had to institute a curfew prohibiting students from studying after 9:30 p.m. because they were beginning to develop very unhealthy sleep habits. When even that did not discourage them from studying in secret, the school simply cut all electrical power to all the classrooms when the clock struck half past nine.” LoveHateRelationshipsFateFameRacismParents And Children Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Hearing my mother's crestfallen and utterly disappointed voice confirmed what I had suspected all along -- that neither she nor my dad actually cared about me. There were no words of reassurance...and certainly no "I love you." All she cared about was that I had failed.” LoveHateRelationshipsFateFameRacismParents And Children Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Despite the best efforts of those around me, I still found plenty of ways to get myself into trouble. One time, I got salmonella by drinking the water from our fishbowl. Another time, I nearly electrocuted myself poking power outlets with my finger.” LoveHateRelationshipsFateFameRacismParents And Children Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Canada is not unilaterally friendly, nor is “friendly” even something that an entire country can be. Sometimes, it feels a bit like we try to cover up our uncomfortable truths with a veneer of tolerance and inclusion.” Truth Reality Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Whether you like it or not, you're getting better at something every day... ...No matter what you choose to do with your day, you are either helping to create a new habit or solidifying old ones. (p155)” Self ImprovementSelf AwarenessSelf RealizationVery True Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Without proper guidance from our parents, who were not terribly concerned with our self-confidence, most of us grew up feeling like we weren’t worthy to be loved or desired; like whatever we were was not enough.” Reality Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“better life. As the beneficiaries of their courage, we in the next generation are responsible for keeping their stories alive so that our great-great-grandchildren will know their roots and, in the face of adversity, will remember that they are descended from wide-eyed dreamers who never gave up on their goal.” Reality Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Nobody forced us to come here,” he says. “We made a choice to immigrate. We knew that nothing was going to be handed to us, and we knew we were going to have to work twice as hard as everyone else.” My parents were not interested in concepts like political activism or social equality; there was only work, and survival.” Reality Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“I had become an expert at not doing any work; the more I got away with it, the more my behavior was enabled.” Reality Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story
“Acting, like life, gets a bit stale when you only make safe choices.” Reality Book:We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story Source: We Were Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story