“If there is a word that should be retired from use in the service of women's expression, health, well-being, and equality, it is appropriate - a sloppy, mushy word that purports to convey some important moral essence but in reality is just a policing term used to regulate our language, appearance and demands. It's a control word. We are done with control.” AppropriateControlWomanhoodLadylike Book:Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women's Anger Source: Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women's Anger