“I finally understand the meaning of acceptance on the grief chart. It’s not that the bereaved ever accepts the death of the loved one—I will never accept your death—it’s that you come to accept that these really are your shitty, irreversible circumstances.” DeathLossGrief Book:Everything is Horrible and Wonderful: A Tragicomic Memoir of Genius, Heroin, Love and Loss Source: Everything is Horrible and Wonderful: A Tragicomic Memoir of Genius, Heroin, Love and Loss