“The abuse experience might have made her suspicious of anyone wanting to help and support her. Her abusive partner probably twisted the concept of trust in such a way as to shatter her willingness to trust others. It might be hard for her to fathom that an anchor has no agenda except to care about her. However, it is the very process of learning to trust her anchor which can help an abused woman. Through that relationship she can be reminded what real trust is, who is trustworthy, and how to trust someone again or for the first time.” TrustAbuseAbuse Survivors Book:To Be An Anchor in the Storm: A Guide for Families and Friends of Abused Women Source: To Be An Anchor in the Storm: A Guide for Families and Friends of Abused Women
“As Abby began to trust Justine more, the lack of trust she had for her husband became more apparent and uncomfortable for her. As she attempted to discuss these concerns with her husband his abuse of her worsened. At the same time, her trust in her cousin was strengthening. When Abby decided to leave her husband, seeing little chance for change in their relationship, Justine was the first person she called for help.” TrustAbuseAbuse Survivors Book:To Be An Anchor in the Storm: A Guide for Families and Friends of Abused Women Source: To Be An Anchor in the Storm: A Guide for Families and Friends of Abused Women