“Of course, rationally I knew the universe wasn’t fair and was never going to be—there are no rules or standards for who wins and who loses. Life isn’t fair even when we ostensibly have some degree of control. Life and death just are. Fair has nothing to do with it.” LifeDeathUniverseControlFairness Book:Dying Well: Our Journey of Love and Loss Source: Dying Well: Our Journey of Love and Loss