“The issue of fortuitous encounters brings us to an interesting double standard here. We may recoil in horror at the thought of haphazard chance determining our future life partner, but label that chance `destiny` and we’re entranced by the prospect. On one hand we feel the need to be in control of our romantic choices; on the other hand the thought of losing control can be hugely seductive.” RelationshipsDestinyDatingExplorationSoulmateDuality Book:How to Choose a Partner Source: How to Choose a Partner