“Any time you reject your parent, you are allowing the illusion to come between you and your parent.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Any time you yell at your child, you are allowing the illusion to come between you and your child.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“You, my dear, are a child of God. Let you honor the creation that you are, equally to the beauty of a sunset or a newborn baby or a beautiful vista. You are glorious.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Remember that people who behave in hurtful ways have been programmed sometime in their childhood to be that way.”
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“Parents who are emotionally unavailable, indifferent, uninterested, too busy and/or highly critical set their children up for self-rejection and the need for external validation.”
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“We need teachers to nurture and mentor our children.”
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“God designed and created you, and then gifted you to the world. You are a beautiful, glorious child of God.”
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“Young children are amazing mentors to experience present moment mindfulness. Follow their exploration and they will reveal the treasures and pleasures of mindfulness.”
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“Of course, the way our parents are with us is due to the poor mentorship they received from their parents.”
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“When we learn to seek validation from our parents and the outside world, it is easy to fall for the idea that if we just fit in, look good enough for others, or achieve great success, all will be right in the world.”
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“You may have had a parent that judged you or was highly critical. If so, you may be so familiar with judgment directed at you during your formative years that you automatically judge yourself.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Even if a child knows better, a child should be spoken to with loving respect to assist them to learn.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“When a child believes there is something wrong with them due to criticism, expectations, or judgements, they turn against themselves and experience the ultimate separation.”
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“Most parents thought they were being good parents. They learned from their parents or their grandparents, many of whom were severely traumatized and emotionally disconnected coming out of the devastation of a 1918 influenza pandemic and two world wars.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“If you think it should have been so easy for your parents to have met your needs, then meet your own needs and create the life of your dreams. Do what they could not. Be the change you desired throughout your life.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Most expectations of children are unrealistic and ridiculous. Children are just learning how to ‘be’ in this world. To expect them to know what to do, or to expect them do things in a specific way, is a type of insane cruelty inflicted upon the child. Permit children to make mistakes and to explore life without criticism.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Most people who yell at children, or shame them for making a mistake, would never yell at or shame someone at work for making a mistake.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Children deserve respect more, not less than adults, because they innocently make mistakes.”
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“When parents, family, friends, or teachers behave in hurtful ways it is because they have experienced deep hurt and negative conditioning within them.”
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“The more emotionally available a caregiver, the greater the sense of safety in a child. This leads to a familiarity with healthy relationships.”
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“The birth of a baby is the beginning of a journey of discovery of who this new being is, what they will embody, and how they shall live in relationship with their family, peers, communities, and the environment.”
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“You are because of your mother. Rest into the service that your mother expressed to you, no matter how imperfect it may have seemed. Give yourself permission to retrieve and receive her Love. See her in your vision as the one who cared for you, cleaned up after you, fed you, and held you as a baby as much as life allowed her to at that time.”
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“The merry recognition of a new soul emerging and gracing our lives is a profound experience.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“The birth of a child is a sacred covenant between the Divine, the child, their parent(s), and humanity. This child does not belong to any one or two people.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Although a baby’s body is made from the shared DNA from its parents, the being that animates that body is a Divine soul gracing that particular family and community to be mentored lovingly until the day they are ready to step into the world on their own.”
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“new baby is a holy being entrusted to the world.”
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“Each child is a blessing to the world, and humanity is responsible for that child.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“One of the most powerful and sacred relationships an individual has is with their mother, even if it is marred by emotional conflicts, disfunction, or abandonment. Mothers do the best they can with the resources they have to provide a nurturing environment for their babies.”
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“Remember, the illusion of life intrudes to distract and disconnect families; forgive the illusion. Forgive the missteps of your mother and father.”
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“Most parents did the best they could with the programming and suffering they embodied. Remember them in Love.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“We need parents to care deeply for babies and young children throughout the day, not just for a hectic hour or two in the morning or at night, as those children are our future leaders and caretakers.”
“What we experience as children becomes familiar and we are more likely to replicate experiences and attract people who carry similar patterns as our primary care givers.”
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“If you have children or a spouse, you need to connect with them one-on-one every day.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“To end the cycle of generational loneliness, new parents need to make connecting familiar and to set boundaries around technology for all family members.”
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“For children the openness to friendship is natural. Children always have time for friends. It is not even a choice for most kids, it is an intrinsic delight.”
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“Children love creating, cultivating, exploring and celebrating friendship.”
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“To nurture your connections, hug your family members daily, have conversations, and share loving, supportive and positive things about each other.”
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“Sharing a meal as a family without electronic devices, doing a group activity such as a walk or a weekly excursion is paramount to establish connection.”
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“In attachment theory studies, researchers have observed that children are highly susceptible to both the emotional states and actions of their caregivers, and that interpersonal patterns between children and their caregivers can last a lifetime.”
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“You can either strengthen a child in love and connection or you can plant seeds of self-doubt, self-rejection, and disconnection. The choice is yours.”
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“We are witnessing a time where children are rising up in their power as voices for inspirational change.”
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“Children are mentoring their parents and older generations to actively begin to make major changes, in evidence of glaring environmental and social issues that previous generations have taken too long to address. They feel the urgency for change because they know the long-term consequences that affect their future. Be curious and listen to their passionate messages and educated calls-to-action. Let yourself be inspired to contribute to change as best you can.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“If you find yourself reacting or experiencing anger or frustration with a child, then use it as a gateway to shine light and love upon the lies you were taught by your parents and ultimately by your ancestors. Take responsibility and make amends with that child by apologizing as soon as possible. Explain that your anger was not their fault, that every person is responsible for their own emotions, and that your anger was your responsibility.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“It is wonderful to be physically present in the same space as a child.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“If you get angry with yourself when you make mistakes with children or anyone, then ask yourself, “Why did I react like that? What made me feel that way? What is the lie that I am believing about myself or them?”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Let your interactions with children be intentionally and purposefully loving, fun, and accepting.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“How you are with children has a lot to do with how you were directly mentored by the adults in your life when you were a child.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“Soon after a baby is born, illusion comes in and begins teaching them lies, such as “you are not important,” “you are not enough,” “you are not worthy,” or “there’s no time for you.” Guess who teaches children these lies? Mostly their parents transmit deep unconscious lies that they learned from their parents, school, and society.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“You can feel Love when your child reaches for your hand.”
Source: The Flower of Heaven: Opening the Divine Heart Through Conscious Friendship & Love Activism
“You can hear Love when a child laughs or experience Love when they openly invite you to share what they are discovering.”