“The truth is that this was something over which I had no control and the question is not why but what. What am I going to do with this? What am I going to make of it?” LifeChoicesControl Book:This Lovely Life: A Memoir of Premature Birth, One Twin Lost and One Surviving, and a Mother's Fierce Love Source: This Lovely Life: A Memoir of Premature Birth, One Twin Lost and One Surviving, and a Mother's Fierce Love