“I hate that phrase... 'It is what it is.'" She releases a puff of air through her lips. "It's depressing. It insinuates we can't change a situation, so we have to accept it, but a person can change almost every situation - or their attitude surrounding said situation. So in that sense, nothing has to stay being what it is.” HopeChangeIt Is What It Is Book:Fake-ish Source: Fake-ish