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What Doctors Feel: How Emotions Affect the Practice of Medicine

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Danielle Ofri
Danielle Ofri

Danielle Ofri, born in 1965, is an accomplished editor known for her keen insight and attention to detail. She has provided high-quality editing services to numerous publications. more

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