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“You said you didn't love her enough. How did you know in the end that you didn't?" ... "Because when she went away I didn't miss her. Because I could stand having her out of my sight; because I didn't want to touch her every time I saw her; because I didn't have the urge to buy her flowers every time I passed a flower stall; because I didn't look for her around every corner; because she wasn't in my head every time I looked up from a market report; because she didn't make me feel stoned - and didn't make me feel glad I wasn't; she didn't fire up my imagination; she didn't make me forget the gloom of the past, as the song goes. Because she didn't make me almost wish she'd disappear so I could find her.”

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Book:The Grave Maurice
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The Grave Maurice

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Martha Grimes
Martha Grimes

Martha Grimes is a renowned British detective novel author, born on May 2, 1931. Her works are known for their unique sense of humor and detailed portrayal of English rural life. more

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