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“French parents don’t just think these separations are good for parents. They also genuinely believe that they’re important for kids, who must understand that their parents have their own pleasures. “Thus the child understands that he is not the center of the world, and this is essential for his development,” the French parenting guide Votre Enfant explains.”

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Book:Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting
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Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting

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Pamela Druckerman
Pamela Druckerman

Pamela Druckerman is an American writer born in 1970. Her works primarily revolve around themes such as parenting, family life, and social culture, known for their unique perspective and in-depth research. more

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