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“Blood families aren’t people you choose to be in your life. I totally understand why you thought knowing all about Anna would change you, and knowing your family, and I’m sure on some levels it will. But anything you are feeling is missing inside of you is something you have to find for yourself.”

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Book:Love, the Viscount, & Me
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