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Mindreader: The New Science of Deciphering What People Really Think, What They Really Want, and Who They Really Are

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David J. Lieberman
David J. Lieberman

David J. Lieberman, born in 1953, is a seasoned editor with extensive experience in the publishing industry. He has held editorial positions at several prominent publishing companies, responsible for editing and proofreading a wide range of books. Mr. Lieberman has made significant contributions to the field of editing, playing a crucial role in enhancing the quality of published works. more

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